How long do I wait to contact her or reach out to her. That is the only thing I have to hang into as a sign of hope and that isnt much. Even though you didnt actually cheat with this male friend, what you did sounds like spite and that is not healthy for a marriage. It seems to me that you have to take care of yourself right now. I asked hime to borrow 30 dollars for the week he picked a fight with me so he didnt have to give it to me and spent over 125 on beer and cigarettes for the week and i borrowed money from my mother. Id try to initiate the kind of convo they were having so hed leave her and talk dirty to me instead, but he wouldnt. We talked a lot over that night and the next day and we finally agreed to try and not let what happened be a setback. I forgave her because we had been friends for 3 years so we had a solid foundation. She knew the situation between us and I had my suspicions, but when i asked either of them, i was told to stop being paranoid. I may not know what youre going through but Im sure Ive had the same thoughts and feelings as you have I hope things will get better for you as well. So it seems to me you should work on healing yourself first before complicating matters with relationships. He found me. I know he wants me to love him and show him it, but I dont feel it at all. But these messages must come out. One of the keys to earning trust back is patient giving. That means being patient and not expecting the response you want, but giving, giving, giving. Zeki & Romaya (2008) looked at people's brains while viewing images of the faces of people they either loved or hated. It does not necessarily mean you dont love your husband. he tells me i am beautiful, he loves me above all others in his life, im the perfect partner, keep a good home, good in bed, treat him well. I feel you are absolutely right. She has to be willing to forgive me. Any advice would be much appreciated. i was seeing a counselor but found it of no help at all. There are several pieces of your story that need filling in. I am concerned about his behavior when hes away. Do you see that? Now we're married.". Not only that, but I dont think I could handle it with how much I care for him. See if the feelings will come, and give it time. That they were just social media stuff. 5 months later he texted me and I decided to talk to him again and slowly we began to rebuild what we had and finally are in a relationship now. I do love her still but I am tired of back and forth. Also, I told him I dont do anything. I know that he must be trying to forget about the pain and want to be happy, if only for that night, but more recently when hes been drunk with me (Ive become sober since) he has acted out in a very hurtful way. please help He can do far better than me. And i used to treat him like a king. Is it a therapist who specializes in trauma? My husbands reasoning was better education opportunities for our daughters. He also told me that for the first time he did not have to work for girls to like him. And i really dont want to lose him at all. I basically take care of him like a kid and goes behind my back and decieves me. She actually mentioned that she thinks the reason she let her coworker into her life is because he is confident. And i know shes ok and that i didnt create a problem for her. But he meant what he was saying and weve been back together for about 5 months and ive had some uneasy feelings. I need advice. The best relationships are made with two people who are secure within themselves. I know he still loves me. How do I get him to see that we are repairable? First of all, he doesnt even know how. So I sptopped answering her calls. Then reality sets in and the long-haul TRUE love should kick in. You did not take good care of YOU all that time messing w a married man. If you direct your negative feelings at the person because of this flaw in his or her personality, you are bound to hate him or her (at least a little). We start dating and everything is absolutely perfect, we were perfect. I was recently in a relationship for the past 5 years. Thinking everyday what i did wrong, for this love to disappear just like that. It keeps me in business ;-). she broke up with me 6 weeks ago and it really made me realise how much of a douche i was and how much i love her. And we became friends again. He did stop wearing his wedding ring and he changed my name in his phone to my name instead of wife. I would ask him to come along to some of the events. We struggled with this issue as one of our only fights over the course of 3-4 yrs. Hes just so amazing his name is Brad hes so handsome and loving, funny, sweet but very ignorant he thinks people are out to get him. I truly hurt my boyfriend by texting and flirting continually and lying covering it up and deleting messages.I told him I was sorry I needed outside validation to feel good about myself but Im working on doing better because I dont want to hurt him and I truly love him and could have a great future together.i need help .Im going in circles,this pain Im feeling now ,is how I know he felt everytime I lied .I cant take it back but Im willing to do the work because hes worth it. Someone who hates themselves will behave unknowingly as a victim of unworthiness. d do how can i behaved different? We really have to start giving what we missed to ourselves. Now all I have left is regret and a life without him in it. Understand that it's natural to still love your ex. Harry Emerson Fosdick. He still was there when i needed him and vice versa. Do you think my husband is really in love with his co worker like he says meaning theres just no chance of our marriage ever getting better and us not getting divorced. I have asked her if she still loves me and that who would win in a contest and she had told me that I would win. There are many examples of this kind of thing. I dont want to have it end and then face the same thing that he did Because i doubt hed get back together a 3rd time because he is a sensitive guy and doesnt want either of us to hurt again. It shocked me to the core and 6 months of thinking I dont love him anymore, has made me not want to be with him anymore. Know who you are first, what you need in a dream partner, and be patient. :(. Once you start adding new people, you can have fun and all that, but it doesnt cement a relationship. YOU HURT ME! I can see I broke his heart, he has said he still loves but I did so much of the same things over and over again that he isnt as crazy about me as he was in the beginning. Id be lying if I still didnt think shes the one for me, but its ultimately flawed reasoning because the people we become may not be meant for each other. She would get drunk and mean and i mean reeallly mean. Im hoping that sometime in the future he is able to forgive me and give me another chance. Then one day I found that he communicates with his ex still. He seemed very hopeful and focused on succeeding there. Should I agree to the separation? Weve gotten physical. She is the one, the person I want to grow old with. He has a history of deleting chats, so thats all I found. Not your neighbours. I dont know what to do anymore!!!! Hes aware that he may have closed the door to us doing anything with other people completely. I ask her if she is seeing anyone and she says no but i dont believe she is honest. What happens if years before reading this partner one tries these things and it doesnt work then a few years later after partner one decides to b finished partner two finally decides to try. Her eyes met mine & she lowered hers. It is NOT all about behavior. I said things to him like right person, wrong circumstances, and I even told him I wished Id never met him. My spouse is trying to be patient, but I still dont think he really gets the emotional toll his affair had on me, even though it was several years ago. Let me begin my saga: Within 6 years of marriage we left our families & home country & moved south. We separated and i moved out. Be a man and stuff it. After she had her license tajen away everything started changing. I and my boyfriend were in relationship from 4 years.. Drug use is often a way to hide or escape from old emotional pain. She is basically my everything because I have no family in the states so I did everything with her. Her going crazy telling me just to admit it and tell the truth. The more respectworthy observations you make, the stronger your trust will be in your spouse. 1. Since the last two weeks in April my husband has been spending the weekends with his female friend. I didnt tell him i went outside when my friend was showering. I think its possible fall in and out of love, unfortunately for me I am the one who keeps messing up indifferent ways. I now know this takes time and patience. That was 6 days ago. I was still madly in love with her and after a couple weeks we got back together, for the next two years we kept doing this cycle of on and off. I currently work full time and provide for the family and we are comfortable and can manage to do fun nice things. I have been unfaithful to my wife for 10 years. If the love was real, then after say 6 months of real work on yourself you will be a different person. This broke me. See, these things make me think that perhaps you can be controlling. i know hes really hurt thats why he doesnt feels like talking to me that much . She is the one doing all that. Now after a few days of discussing how I really feel about him and considering going our separate ways I realize I do still love him but things have been said that he cant get past. I was doing really well academically before I met my boyfriend but everything went downhill once I started dating him. Recently we almost broke up but decided to work through things and be better for each other. Maybe that was a lie to get me away from him . I am also happy to work with people via Skype. Hes not closing the door on us but we each have our own work to do, etc. I loved someone and we broke up for 3 times and again he did come back to me and i went to him to, and my family found about it and called his parents and made sure that we wont contact eachother anymore and all. Inge van der Post Recommends: 1. And you lost big. I dont know when I will get to my/our first counseling session but just feel that doing nothing is the wrong thing to do, but doing something will end up not being right. I opened up to this girl who had been my GF for about 6 months. When your wife sees you as having a different attitude because of the work youve done, then there is a possibility she will be willing to take a chance again. This woman wants a whole person, I would guess. He is always right but we have been talking since May 2 of this yr as I called and wished him a Happy Birthday but I also wanted to apologize for my own personal wrongdoing because I moved on to another guy/guys while we were seperated. I just checked that she posted on Facebook. My partner has said he loves me but is not in love with me , thing is he wont move out we have 2 children both teenagers, I am doing everything I can to change myself and be a better person. She could barely bring herself to hug me and a kiss was not even possible. Hi Sean, I could feel your sadness and dismay when I read it. I am broken and dont know where to go from here. I am skeptical of this NC sometimes. In the end neither of us were happy with anyone else. Hi Ruqyah On or around January 15 this year, she called me very early in the morning crying so bad that my heart shook because she never cried like that. I dont want this to happen. I know I was wrong and I should of had trust but he wont give me a chance. I had a sense of self-incompleteness so I decide to travel and volunteer in a different country for 3 weeks. About six months ago, we had a blow out because of what I perceived as a radical change in her behavior. I felt so disrespected. Well after our split I took it very hard and did soul searching and trying to figure out why I couldnt get rid of the anger and what felt like a demon that lived in my head even though I had told her several times I would change and I honestly wanted to,but couldnt. We kept to our routines; he would kiss me when leaving for work sbd let me hug him but the warmth was gone. Next, the panic attack and the over-working the workout are something that worries me. What did you learn in your counseling? Ive never stopped showing him affection and we are intimate but it isnt genuine. Since then I have turned all of that around but it was still very up and down for a long time. I knew I had lost him. Several years later he was talking to my son and said that he saw a girl he had gone to school with and had he known she would end up looking like that. She believes they have a connection and she is happy with him. My girlfriend knew something was up with me before I even told her my plan, and in one brief conversation one morning without truly thinking it through I told her yes, I was moving and that I was not Interested in a long distance relationship as I did not like the idea of long distance, and did not know the pathway that this decision to move was leading me down. I told him last week. This, I am guessing, is the it that this woman thinks you are not getting. We had made promises to each other the first day we met physically; both of us vowed to get in shape and improve ourselves. Had sex got pregnant. Why wouldnt you want shared custody? She drives me crazy. I want his trust back as well n his love as well . She declined & he called her from our kitchen at 7am to supposedly wish her & remind her the invitation was open. His hurt is pure anger now. Even more than when we firet met. I need help Should I end this ? We live in different states what can i do! You see, he is blocked from his feelings because that is his SAFETY zone. Please go together to see a couples counselor. All friends and family who I discussed this with thought I should leave him but no one but him and I could understand that we had such a deep connection despite his actions. The thought of the pain I have caused him is unbearable and I also feel that I cannot live without him. I started to fuss, snap, yell and put him down on a regular basis. It is easy enough to see how love and hate can coexist in cases of unreciprocated love. You may have felt too low a sense of self-esteem to select properly the first time so you would benefit from work on your self esteem. It can only come from herself. Craig thank you for your apology. Of course, there is my book, The Healing Is Mutual. I noticed she seemed insecure at times about me wanting the relationship in the past month. We were together, but not technically, for a while due to the fact that I was staying with my mom a few hours away. Hell take me out on dates, cook me dinner, and most importantly, putting up with me no matter how much I seem to push him away. He then said he wanted time to think about whether he wants to continue our relationship. I dont just not love him, sometimes I feel like I actively dislike him. He has never had a steady job, and im lucky if I get a couple hundred bucks off him a month. However, since this incident, I e noticed him drinking more, either just with friends or with me in a group. We still live in the same house, sleep in the same bed, and we still have sex. He told me he gave her a lift home (yet dropped her off at the top of our street they lived opposite us) & that she kissed him goodbye as a thank you. She came for one thing as usual MONEY. She tells me herself. It was my value. Trying to figure out how to bring back that love joy happiness back. Neural Correlates of Hate, PLoS ONE 3: e3556. But how is that possible? I am in love with him.and relationships arent perfect but i know i messed up with handling my anger wrong. Just expressing how badly you feel will not help you learn exactly what to do to get out of the bad place your feelings are in. I need advice. Our problems began after 3 months of being together he cheated on me because he got mad at me so I broke up with him, but the next day I found out I was pregnant, and truly wanted nothing more than to be with him. He started to believe his only chance was going to France. He firmly believed that I went to volunteer in a different country to find someone else and leave him. Then two days later he came home and showered since being together hes never came home and showered. I really dont know what to do. Do you have any suggestions or help you can provide? I was self-sabotaging & I was not completely in-love when we got married & I felt like he couldnt hurt me. Anyway, to the person who wrote this article, Thank You. Is there yelling? I would go to his moms house and it was like a shrine to the ex. If you pray, then pray for help. What I advise is a really, really competent therapist who will work with the two of you together to help him turn on his feelings (which means helping him overcome his early learning to turn them off). We are also very different so I dont know why we held on to each other this long but I also know that I couldnt go on without him. There are many brands of therapy. It would blow me away when I rarely heard him say anything positive towards me. you are welcome my friend it is a great pleasure meeting you here on facebook but i would really love to know more about this angel parading herself as human that has captivated me with her lovely smile. I call her about an hour after the first argument, I apologize and tell her that I made a huge mistake in arguing about my clothing, she thanks me for the apology, but says shes not taking me, even though I said I could go, dress formally and had apologized. I am so lost without her. 9: Enjoy an aquarium It is so hard to make it be all about me and my recovery. I justified it for so long as it being her fault for making me that mad. I decided to give him space , no talking or texting for a DAT , just to see if he would miss me. No support from family or anyone else. Letting them get away with it isnt showing them love, its only hurting them. He understands he stepped over my boundaries, I understand that I didnt say specifics in the first place (I should have expressed that kissing was out of bounds, that I didnt want him touching her yet, etc. To be honest with you, its too hard to do alone. I have no one to talk to, and I had to let it out. Thanks! We both still love each other immensely. w/o details I cant say much other than that it usually leads to big trouble. Everything was more than great, both of us were emotionally comfortable and deeply involved in our school responsibilities, all while still devoting enough time to each other to make a great relationship. It got so bad I just stopped going to his moms. This article focuses on two people who are genuinely in tune to each other. He feels like he was also hurt when I travelled alone so he doesnt feel like he has to prove himself much to get me back. It is the basis of love and loyalty. Meanwhile during pregnancy I tried visiting her place but she prevented me that the landlady doesnt want anyone come over. He has to commit to making changes or getting help if he cant figure out how to treat a woman by himself. But my heart is broken and doesnt understand why we have to be apart to do this. Hi Helen, I didnt want to because I wanted to lose 10lbs. I dont want to lose my wife or my son to lose his mother. Any suggestion friends? I was told once, the best thing a father can do for his children, is love their mother, Hi yes he is a very good father to the children and at this present time has said he is trying to get back to the relationship he is being more warm and friendly towards me too. my question for you to think about is: When will you start protecting yourself from verbal abuse? That was the last straw for him. If hes not sure about her, he may abandon both of you anyway. But now, your new gf is also insecure because of what happened to her in the past. This I learned mid July. The way shr did from the beggining, wherr i messed up was i would call her names and yell at her but then i changed my ways all late when the love was gone ): Hi Bell There was never any abuse, cheating or major fighting in our relationship we just sort of drifted apart and life got in the way and we didnt focus on nurturing our relationship. This is the most painful thing Ive ever beenthrough and Im just looking for answers. I could not bring myself to confess to her because I was scared of her reaction and the outcome so I tucked it away and love her the way she deserved to be loved going forward. For 3 weeks I slept on the couch. I want to rebuild trust for her to fall in love with me again, I know it will take time. That said, we learned in school that two wrongs dont make a right. I realize now I pushed him to do some things he did not want to do and did not respect or consider him like I should have. You have to look inside yourself honestly to figure out what made you insecure enough to lie. My problem is, I feel that I gave him an inch and he completely disregarded how I might feel if he went further than her pleasing him. Loving each other and really enjoying each other. He spends his days with her constantly and constantly talks to her on the phone. Him now having a friend and moving so quickly makes me think he may be telling the truth this time. Is my husband going to marry this co worker and their going to b live happily ever after. I actually did live a simple life but made some made choices. However, it is healthiest if each person can take responsibility for their share. Its possible for a person to make mistakes in life we all do- but if we LEARN from them, were better than we were before. Her son was a school friend of this youngster. We have two children 16 and a 6 yr old . I had done him a favor by printing some flyers for him so I told him that he owed me. I realized eventually that through out the course of the relationship I was being emotionally abusive towards her in my actions and reactions. Please help me what should I do. her in 2 weeks time and spend the weekend with He is waiting on an answer but it is killing him inside I know. From this, respect and trust begin to grow. I need advice bad.What does all this mean and should I just give up any hope of our marriage ever working out. I came to the conclusion that I was projecting my feelings towards myself on to her and that I was really hurting both of us. He wanted a divorce all along and this thing aggravated more. Finally, 7 weeks ago, after a somewhat benign comment from me about why things werent like they used to be, he snapped. He told me that he was just stressed out and that it was no big deal. We had been together for barely a year (long-distance) at the time and I couldnt see the potential for another 2 years long distance in different countries, so he chose the job in my city and thats where the problem started. Move on!! and for the past 5 years I lived a life where I was scared to leave the house unless necessary out of fear of having another attack. He told me that hes planned on forgiving me, and always planned on getting back together and he tells me that he misses me. For two years. He probably forgot to delete it. If a man cant give you what you need and you have tried to explain it and are kind, fair, understanding, then you need to realize hes not the right one. Work on yourself in that way. She did not. I am sure this man has good qualities. He called me unloyal. At a point I had suicidal thoughts when I couldnt make him believe that I wasnt with someone else. Id appreciate that. My boyfriend and I have been together almost two years now, and weve gone through a lot (my parents disapprove of him and kept us apart.) We werent together officially but the purpose was to get closer to having a real relationship. Im going to seek out an abuse specialist to help me make sense of all the controlling actions I make, but I will never stop loving her. The girl brought up wanting to perform on my husband, he immediately looked at me..not in a pleading way, but more of a did she just say that? If people are blamers and dont do ANY reflection on themselves, its not a great formula for marriage. With that being said I was very controlling, checked his phone/email/facebook constantly, I didnt trust him and every girl he associated with I said he was trying to get with her. He cant read my emotions at times and mostly assumes Im mad for everything. Heres the back story: She is 44 and came from a well off family. and i cheated on her. However, right now I am in so much pain. Id like to hear your take on my situation. Fast forward, she badly needed to see me in May but I prevented her cus I was confused about my status. Toxic messages are verbal abuse and verbal abuse is traumatic. I was always confused when he said I had betrayed him. She simply did not answer. As a mother their pain is my pain and now I hurt and emotionally stricken even harder. To see him with another woman would kill me all over again. 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